July 4th, 2009 Filed Under enart.notebookputer.com edit
Hi - a co-worker of mine (Chinese - PRC) had a grandparent pass.
Apparently a big deal. I was wondering what would be a token of
condolence in China? Nothing extravagent (coworker) and should be
formal/professional. It would be nice to do something considered
"genuinely Chinese". Also - if there is a particular
gift/custom/whatever - would it be considered rude coming from A) a
coworker or B) a non-Chinese person?
Thanks,
Scaryscaryberry...
Thanks for your question and my condolences to your friend upon their
loss. It is very thoughtful of you to want to provide a token of
condolence. Flowers are appropriate, however, they cannot have
thorns, therefore, roses are out of the question. The most popular
funeral flowers are yellow or white chrysanthemums. Most families
observe a month of mourning during which visitors come to greet the
family bringing gifts of food. There are gifts to avoid:
"Do not give foreign currency, including commemorative coins.
Do not give cheese. Cheese is not in the Chinese diet and is generally
not liked.
Do not give Western-style table wine, as it is not popular in China.
Do not give clocks, especially to an older person. The English word
"clock" sounds like the Chinese word for "funeral."
Do not give anything in sets of four, or with the numbers 4 or 40 on
them."
China Business Protocol
http://www.asiasource.org/business/2know/china.cfm
As noted by HTH, money (a small token amount) is another gift that can
be given as well. At a traditional Chinese funeral, guests are given
a small amount of cash (about a dollar) that is used to purchase a
treat to help sweeten the memory of the deceased to remove some of the
bitterness of the moment. If the funeral is to be held in China, do
not send money, as noted above. As opposed to money, it would also be
appropriate to make a donation to a charity in the name of the
deceased.
Thanks again for your question and I hope the above information has
been helpful. If you need any additional clarification, please let me
know prior to rating my answer.
Regards,
-THV
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A Chinese Funeral
http://leahi.kcc.hawaii.edu/academics/stud%5Fpubs/horizons/horizons95/yuen.html
The Etiquette of Funerals and Mourning Rituals
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